Slow to Speak
Worship Wednesday with Pastor Edith
April 9, 2025
James 1:19-20
I was having a lively discussion the other day with a young couple who plan to be married later this year. One of the topics that brought the most thought and laughter was the topic of learning how to communicate well. I only know to share from scripture and personal experience when helping someone else, so I shared how I have been told that I use a lot of words, go figure.
The scripture I used is one that is very good to memorize because it is very helpful in our day to day dealings with people. James 1: 19-20 reads: “My dear brothers, take note of this; Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for man’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires”. Yep, I should recite that every time I think I have something brilliant to share during any argument, I mean discussion.
Another tidbit I find very helpful would also be good to memorize, though it is not scripture; “In a world of words there is much to say. But, often, when nothing is said, everything can be heard” (adapted from “Jacob’s Ladder by Noah benShea p.156). Suffice it to say (I hear somebody giggling over my many words), it would be a new kind of world if all people chose to follow what James says in being slow to speak and quick to listen. Perhaps that is a major issue right now in my culture. The issue of not really listening. Some counseling techniques call this “active listening”. If I can slow down my thoughts and spend some time listening to the Holy Spirit before jumping to my own conclusions, perhaps my conversations and postings would be more helpful and less divisive.
My song for you today as I close this time with you is “Let there be peace on earth” written by Sy Miller 1955; “Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me. Let there be peace on earth, the peace that was meant to be. With God as our Father, brothers all are we. Let me walk with my brother in perfect harmony…” Why not sing that out loud right where you are and see what happens.
AMEN and PRAY ON!