The Gentle Cycle
June 15, 2022
Midweek Study with Pastor Edith
Proverbs 15:1
Laundry chores are not among my favorites, but I am always thankful that I have a sturdy washer and dryer that can handle some tough loads. One of the settings on my washer is the “Gentle” cycle. I rarely use it because most of my dirty laundry requires a more aggressive approach. Let me try to make a connection with you between this laundry illustration and what we are studying in the messages concerning living in the Holy Spirit of God: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law” (Galatians 5:22).
In what I like to call the fruit salad of the Spirit, we find gentleness. Proverbs reminds us; “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1). Here is where I often struggle with a more aggressive approach when it comes to difficult conversations. Like extra soiled laundry, there are some pretty messy situations that come my way, and I can’t ignore them. Like dirty laundry, if I don’t deal with the messiness with which I am confronted, then it just sits there in my heart and mind until I find myself with “stinking thinking”, that robs me of my peace and rest.
Jesus offers us all a chance to use the “Gentle Cycle” when dealing with the troubles we face; “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls” (Matthew 11:28-29).
When you are faced with a situation that demands your attention, and your first instinct is to give the other person “a piece of your mind”, take just a second or two and breathe in again the Holy Spirit of God and ask Him to guide your words, to be a more “gentle answer”. It takes practice, and many times I’m not the best example, but verses like the above really do help me, if I will just take the time to read and remember them. Pastor Robert Strand reflects on “Gentleness in the words we speak” in his little devotional Nine Fruits of the Spirit by quoting Max Lucado: “Nothing is won by force. I choose to be gentle: If I raise my voice may it be only in praise. If I clench my first, may it be only in prayer. If I make a demand, may it be only of myself”.
May the Holy Spirit guide us all day by day as we choose “the gentle cycle”.
AMEN!